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Ben is about to host a new series of The Summit, an adventure series that will launch on ITV
Ben is about to host a new series of The Summit, an adventure series that will launch on ITV
The 51-year-old co-host of This Morning is about to go edgy with The Summit
The 51-year-old co-host of This Morning is about to go edgy with The Summit

He may be best known as the squeaky-clean, ever-smiling face of This Morning, but as his most perilous TV project yet prepares to hit screens, Ben Shephard reveals there’s a thrill-seeker beneath the polished exterior — and a quietly powerful marriage holding everything together.

Ben Shephard is a middle-aged man so proud of his fitness that last year he posed topless on the cover of a health magazine, showing off his six-pack
Ben Shephard is a middle-aged man so proud of his fitness that last year he posed topless on the cover of a health magazine, showing off his six-pack
Ben Shephard showed off his rippling muscles for a striking Men's Health UK cover
Ben Shephard showed off his rippling muscles for a striking Men’s Health UK cover The strong ones can try to have anyone they see as a threat voted off, which le

At 51, Ben is unapologetically proud of his fitness. Last year, the presenter made headlines after posing topless on the cover of a health magazine, confidently showing off a sculpted six-pack. Now, the famously affable host is taking a sharp turn away from comfort-zone television with The Summit, one of the toughest challenge formats ever attempted, filmed high in New Zealand’s Southern Alps.

“I love adventure,” Ben admits. “I’ve been lucky enough to climb a couple of mountains, so I understand what’s involved. I fell in love with New Zealand as a teenager, and filming there again was incredible. Essentially, we’ve set an adventure reality show against the epic backdrop of The Lord of the Rings movies.”

Ben shares Sam, 20, and Jack, 19, with his wife Annie
Ben shares Sam, 20, and Jack, 19, with his wife Annie

Fourteen contestants — none with any mountaineering experience — begin the climb together. Among them are a landlady from Northampton, a steelworker from Port Talbot, a London tour guide and even an ordained minister.

“It’s an extraordinary melting pot,” Ben says. “And they start falling out almost immediately. The physical challenge is so intense that patience wears thin very quickly.”

Each day brings jaw-dropping endurance tests. By day three, snow sets in. Ice picks are introduced. Glaciers must be crossed. As night falls and temperatures drop below freezing, contestants are forced to vote on who should be sent home.

Ben was born in Epping, Essex, and his parents David and Jo still live in a village nearby
‘Annie was with me way before I got into telly,’ he says of his wife (pictured) adding: ‘She has been through everything with me, the highs and lows’

“They need to work as a team,” Ben explains. “So if someone isn’t pulling their weight, it becomes obvious very fast.”

The stakes are brutally clear: each contestant carries their share of a £200,000 prize in their rucksack. Every withdrawal shrinks the final pot. At one point, as a struggling contestant admits they can’t continue, another snaps: “There goes £14,000.”

Power struggles erupt. Stronger players attempt to eliminate perceived threats. Shocking votes follow — including explosive rows between a priest with a hidden past and a manipulative former soldier. Ben and Cat Deeley took over as the main presenters on This Morning two years ago

“It was incendiary at times,” Ben admits. “I had to defuse a very febrile situation.”

Is it The Traitors turned extreme? Ben laughs: “Claudia’s fingerless gloves wouldn’t cut it on that mountain.”

Despite doctors and expert climbers overseeing filming, the danger was very real. One contestant injured themselves on a rope ladder clinging to a sheer cliff face.

“That’s when it hits you how quickly things can go wrong,” Ben says.Ben said of his sons: 'Jack¿s working as a teaching assistant before travelling. Sam¿s studying maths at university and having a ball'

Off-screen, Ben cuts a relaxed figure in a Covent Garden café, but admits he’s not sure he could have handled the challenge himself. “I’m a bit of a daredevil,” he says, “but I don’t know if I could’ve done everything they had to do.”

Fitness has long defined him. He posed for Men’s Health in 2012, then trained relentlessly to repeat the feat for his 50th birthday last year. He climbed Kilimanjaro for Comic Relief in 2009 alongside Fearne Cotton and later tackled the gruelling World’s Toughest Mudder endurance race with his sons Sam, 20, and Jack, 19.

“That was probably the biggest physical challenge of my life,” he says. “Doing it with my boys was incredibly emotional.”

Born in Epping, Essex, Ben insists he’s not posh despite attending private school. His parents, David and Jo, came from working-class backgrounds and instilled a relentless work ethic.

At Birmingham University, studying dance and drama, Ben met Annie — the woman who would become his wife. She was there long before fame arrived.

“Annie was with me way before telly,” he says. “She’s been through everything — the highs and the lows.”

Now married for years, their relationship thrives on friendship and independence. “She’s exceptionally patient,” Ben jokes. “And I’m very patient with new shoes. But honestly, we were great mates when we got together — and that’s at the heart of it.”

Annie avoids the spotlight entirely, working in garden and interior design. “She’s brilliant at giving me space,” Ben explains. “She’s happy in her own company. Half the time she’s saying, ‘Can you leave me alone for five seconds?’”

There’s affection, not offence, in his voice. “She’s been the most important influence in our family. She created the home our boys grew up in — and made me a better dad.”

With Sam at university and Jack working before travelling, the couple are on the brink of becoming empty nesters.

“It’s already quieter,” Ben admits. “And this next stage feels exciting — a bit unknown, but exciting.”

Exercise remains his therapy. He’s running a marathon this year despite back problems and torn discs, balances it with Pilates, and has cut back on alcohol.

“I like control over the choices I can make,” he says. “Fitness, health, what I consume — those are mine.”

Asked about admirers, Ben shrugs it off. His most enthusiastic fan, he jokes, is a Coronation Street character obsessed with him — much to the amusement of his 83-year-old great-aunt.

Ultimately, his motivation is simple: longevity. “If I’m lucky enough to be a grandfather one day, I want to kick a football around with my grandkids,” he says. “That’s what this is really about.”

As The Summit looms, Ben’s philosophy feels quietly revealing:
“If you put your mind to something and surround yourself with people who believe in you — and you believe in them — you can do anything.”